Papilloma after 10 years?

Hello, i�m 40 years single woman, i have suffered a terrible traumatic experience 15 years ago, i was d, i was so traumatized that i never ever again had , none before none after, i�m very catholic, but i check my blood an do all exams and i have nothing, but this past week i have a terrible hemorrage, so i go to a gynecologist, and she make me a ultrasound via l, she put a condom to the instrument and a blue gelatin to introduce me the instrument and see my womb, she found a smal myoma about 1.5 to 3.5 cm, she want to make me an hysterectomy, and i don�t want, all my doctors say she is crazy, and that i can still have children, please, is possible that I have papilloma?, why i bleed so much, i never had any lession of nothing, never, i don�t do , please give me some advice, i already suffered so much, my mom die of endometrial cancer, my brother had meningitis at 8 is now a children, and i suffered Grave�s disease due to so much stress, what i do? how can i trust a Dr.